Sometimes, felt that over independent is a worst thing in life... Seems like everything have to be handle by yourself.. No one could actually help and no one could actually willing to help since everyone thinks that you are independent enough...
Hate myself over independent, even sick, it's my responsibility to drive to clinic and consult doctor.. (sick didn't recover but I got another illness)
Medic allergic, it's my fault again, my responsibility agian to consult doctor one more time...(Now, I don't even want to bother anymore...)
Independent, for me, isn't a good thing, but I would rather said it's a worst feeling...
I would rather prefer someone to be beside to help, or just to share with me...
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Consequences of Independent
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"Sometimes, felt that over independent is a worst thing in life..."
ya i agree. totally agree. sometimes you really have to let go some things to let some people to learn how to be independent. not only you. do you know that your independent caused other people's dependence? i'm not scolding you but i just couldn't stand for it for sometimes. i know everyone did do their own job, yet people can't grow much if they always under one's shade. do you get me?
and we used to follow your lead style, that caused all of us another problem. ok maybe only me? not your fault i have to say that. but all of us really have to try in different aspects. it's kinda of stress when i was trying to lead because others had familiar with your lead style. ok maybe it's my leading problem. but everyone has his/her own way to do things, so we just follow them lo.
ok crap, what i want to say is, it's time for you to pass your "independent" to other people who need it. let them lead and learn! and be independent. you may try to follow other people's instructions lo. and see the different result. (i'm not meaning marks but real improvement on us)
think of it. and you may leave your always-pessimism-cause-most-of-your-blog-entries-so-bloody-under-low-pressure.
read few more times if you can't get what i'm trying to say.
good time always.
if you can't see, it's "you may say goodbye to your always-pessimism-cause-most-of-your-blog-entries- so-bloody-under-low-pressure"
and ya, advice for you, beware of your talk manner or used words cuz it's really hurt. you may not think so but so are we. or maybe me. although you are not intentionally to say that, wound is there already. everyone has his/her own problems and pressure, but it doesn't mean harsh words could be said. world has nothing in 100% equity, yet you can't refuse people's works or efforts even though they're doing not as much as you done! as long as people have try their best, don't treat them too harsh.
i'm here talking with you because i don't want to keep it in my heart. the feeling is so damn shit. no harsh meaning. not scolding. hope you can understand.
take life easy. otherwise tensions and bad feelings that you let on yourself will kill you.
i'm sorry that i complained.. but i want to clarify that it's not like a form of complaining but kind of 'have to redo then feel like wasted'. i'm not God and as a normal human sure i'll voice out my 不甘心的话. it's normal. no other meaning. it's not like i want to complain to you all! why you want to misunderstood me? cuz i know you, guo wei and chee haur did lots of jobs and redo many times.. 你们的辛苦我们都知道,也很感激. sincere. 虽然我做的不能跟你们比,但我也只是个凡人,讲出不开心的话是在所难免的. 但绝对没有针对任何人的意思. 相对的当你们不开心的时候也有讲出不开心的话,但有什么关系? 这只是一种发泄的管道. 事情过去了就没有东西了. 但我不知道为什么你要放大来看? 我都没有那个意思.. 我讲了过后还是会做的. why you want to shoot me like that? 我那时反击你是因为我觉得你讲话的语气太过分了. 不止一次. 我也只不过是显示出我的自然反应, 有错吗? 难道当时你们看见你们所做的东西消失的时候没有这种反应吗? 那为什么我所反应出的只是一件小事而你根本可以不理我,然后我会继续做我的东西,你却要那样的攻击我?
有一点我必须声明的是,我绝对没有用不好的语气来跟你说话.(previous comments, and also now) maybe my English not good so it sounds like i'm talking to you rudely and angrily. i swear, i didn't. if i really bu shuang someone, i won't talk to her/him. i will never waste my time to bother. so i chose to voice out my feeling to you in your blog because i'm here to minimize the bad feelings and misunderstood between us. i'm sucks in talking face to face so i chose to write. but i really don't know why it became worse. i really sad when i saw your reply. ok maybe you will think i'm so fake talking these shit to you. but i swear, i'm sincere. i know you are on fire on me, but really hope that you can cool down yourself and read my reply. again, i'm writing all these with no rude meaning or manner.
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